Thursday 25 April 2013

MMF Threesome: Bi Husband, Wife & Male Friend Have Sex


You’re bi-curious, probably even call yourself bisexual.  You’ve introduced the idea of you and your wife going off to a swingers club in order to spice up your failing married sex life.  It would be something that you could do together. You figure that if she gets to play with other men that she might get her mojo back. All the while you get to not only watch her having sexual fun but you get to experience further aspects of your own bisexually curious nature with other husbands.  That means no guilt because each of you is exploring your own natural curiosities.

Unfortunately the swinger club idea dies – “I couldn’t have sex with a stranger – and certainly not in front of other people.”  “What about STIs and other diseases?”  “Do they always use condoms?”  “What if I knew somebody?”  etc.

Whilst these are expected reactions it’s been my experience that in fact more wives than you might consider like the idea of adding a trusted male friend into the confines of the marital bed if only occasionally. A known friend seems to lower the threat of damage to her image of her marriage and of her own morality. Similarly when on vacation when a spontaneous threesome occurs with a total stranger, that stranger is perceived to be of no threat.

When discussed beforehand between husband and wife, and then between husband and friend, it becomes a more natural event. Of course the friend should also be bisexual or at least bi-curious.  

Once agreed, every one knows in advance what is going to happen, so all that is needed is to set the date and the place. That means no kids, no opportunity for unexpected drop-in neighbours and no time limits. The night is for the three of you to be as anxiety free as possible and to be totally pleasured for as long and as frequently as you all desire. There’s nothing better than all three sleepily waking up together and having another round or two. A weekend away at an isolated retreat might be just the place.

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Alcohol mixed with chatty conversation is good for lowering any anxiety. Add fondling time in a spa or under a shower, a warmed bedroom, some aromatic candles (include patchouli or ylang ylang as these are both good erotic aphrodisiacs), some sex toys, some amyl if this doesn’t conflict with medications, condoms if you plan to use them and if it has been approved of, a camera to record some of the highlights. Don’t worry about playing DVD porn in the bedroom – it’s not needed as the three of you will be making your own erotic intensity.

The combinations for enjoyment are many and may include

-       kissing
-       fondling
-       oral involving wife on friend, husband on friend
-       eating out the wife whilst the other man gets a blow job from her
-       voyeuring as your wife and friend pleasure each other
-       filming as your wife is taken by your friend
-       your wife becomes the sexual meat-in-the-sandwich between her two men
-       having your friend blow you whilst your wife plays with her toys
-       watch her face and sense her excitement as your friend f**ks you
-       and again later in the night as you f**k him while she films you both
-       after the first two rounds sleep for a while and then begin all over again
-       have champagne for breakfast

This is a favourable way to have action with another guy within the extended parameters of the marital bed. She will appreciate the touch of romance of it all as this will help lower any guilt or opposition she might carry in to this first foray about it being dirty, morally wrong or threatening. If the event happens spontaneously with a stranger without the romantic overlay in place you both may need to have a deeper talk about future possibilities – but do this after your man has departed.  The stranger doesn’t need to be part of your marriage plans as after all he was just with you both for some good bi-curious fun. Chances are he has his own marital issues to sort out when he goes home.

Whether you have additional times with another man in the marital bed will depend on many factors. Perhaps the greatest benefit will be the opening of dialogue between you and your wife about your sexual needs, and the fact that they include men. It may be just the turning point that reinvigorates your sex life at home or it may be time for your wife to say I’m really not interested in sex or playing with strangers but why don’t you go out and have some fun with men. Don’t bring them home, play safe and don’t tell me anything about your exploits.

Sound fanciful?  Let me assure you that such scenarios do happen, and much more frequently than you might imagine especially if this is the second marriage for you both.






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