Wednesday 18 June 2014

Groin Gazing, Basket Watching and Boner Alert


Basket-watcher, crotch-watching, checking the family jewels, eyeing the bulge, checking his lunch, budgie smugglers or playing what's-in-the-package, they all mean the same.

Whether you’re cruising for sex or just looking at the smorgasbord of delectable men in your area, don’t underestimate the power of erotic stimulation through crotch watching to fire up your imagination.

I love looking at a man’s genital area. Every man that passes in the street offers potential erotic thoughts for me. It’s not that I will in reality get to have sex with him, but the way he presents himself is what turns me on. It’s me imagining what lurks behind the bulge (or otherwise) that fires up my sexual libido. And if an erection is spied, then my imagination goes into overdrive.

It also tells me a lot about that man and his self image.

Does he dress to the left, the right, down a leg or tucked between his legs? That is, does he like his cock to be comfortable in a particular position? How this is presented for my pleasurable viewing depends on his penis length and girth, the type of underwear he has on (if any) and the fabric his trousers or shorts are made of. Is the bulging package the result of him wearing a cock-ring or jock bolster enhancement? Only my imagination can answer those questions.

Is this what you fantasised as being under the suit?

See a business-man striding down the sidewalk smartly dressed in a suit with an eight inch arrow pointing down his leg immediately says “confidence” about himself – and probably that he is wearing boxers to allow his ‘trouser snake’ to fall as desired.

If there is a big bulge in a tight pair of jeans that can mean a thick cock tightly packed into sculptured Lycra jocks. There’s nowhere for that cock to go other than to push out a bulge to an admiring world.

Look at those underwear photos in any mail order catalogue and what do you see? Yep, sexual potential and erotic stimulation. So what if the models are totally unobtainable sexually, it’s still a great sexual stimulant to get your thoughts fired up. The brain is the best sex organ in the body, so exercise it with thoughts about what you would like to do with your man in the photo.

And what of sportsmen? How many men, both straight and gay, admire a sportsman’s groin as they watch them on television – and think about all those photos we have stored away in our memory of locker-room hunks and athletes in bulging jockstraps. So many different sport uniforms emphasise the power of muscle, of masculinity and strength, and highlighting a crotch area gives that additional erotic interest to the viewer.

With huge numbers of us being sporting ‘couch-potatoes’ and with the television camera lenses being so crystal clear and close-up, it’s an ideal combination to keep us watching. Without having to share thoughts with our viewing mates we can quietly admire the sexual broodiness and erotic potential that these sportsmen can offer us. After watching a game over a couple of hours is there any wonder that sex after a big match can be a very hot experience and a great way to relieve that built up horniness.

And what about the joys of hot weather when shorts appear? Special note to fashion trend-setters: please bring back tight shorts for men as a fashion statement. Voyeuring men around the world would appreciate that. Best voyeuring spots ever are the building construction sites.  Wow! so many rugged men in such tight little shorts!

All photos courtesy Tumblr
And for a highlight moment in summer don’t you just love it when an interesting man wearing a wet pair of tight, brief speedos passes you on the beach and leaves nothing to your imagination.

Whatever the season, crotch-watching is a wonderful pastime. As most men are constantly thinking erotic thoughts and where their next sex is coming from, what better stimulant than to be a groin gazer? It costs nothing, it is always available, no one need know you’re doing it – and if luck goes your way, maybe there’s some unexpected instant sex as a result.
As the old saying goes “It pays to advertise!”




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