Thursday, 22 July 2021

Uncut! What Does Having a Foreskin Feel Like? (Penis Docking)

 


“It's like having your cockhead polished with a velvet or satin cloth. The more the outer foreskin caresses the head, the more ecstatic becomes the pleasure“.

That was just one example of what I was told when I raised the subject of docking your penis inside another guy's foreskin. It was also surprising how many men, gay or straight, had not had that sensuous experience of penis docking.

It's true that a long foreskin is needed to achieve maximum docking overlay, but it's still possible with lesser length.

 

It's years since my first docking experience at a suburban bathhouse where an older guy suggested we play and use his extended length to dock. I'm cut, and we cut men often wonder what it would be like to have retained our foreskin.

In my experience, docking is as close to what this might feel like as I can find. 


When his foreskin covers your penis head and he starts to massage it backward and forwards along your head and perhaps part of the shaft, then let yourself drift off in your mind. This is what a foreskin could feel like.

Inside it's moist and warm. You can feel his fingers through the skin as they glide over you without any friction. Your head is receptive to the movement and the nerve ends are alive with pleasure and anticipation. It feels like your penis has been captured in a protective and warm skin-sheath and is no longer exposed to the elements. You want him to masturbate you while feeling his hand holding you as your shaft pushes forward and back.

 

Your penis is once again protected and caressed and it's up to you to decide when and where it plays rather than it being a cut one that is exposed and seemingly ready for sex at all times. Strangely, it feels like you have once again taken control back over your cock. 

There's a layer of pleasurable skin between your most intimate privacy and that of the outer world. You perhaps think about whether an uncut man feels different in his underwear – that because the cockhead is protected from the cotton and the lycra stimuli as he goes about his day, there aren't the same constant sexual messages being sent to his brain that you're used to. 

And what does it feel like to ejaculate inside his foreskin – absolute bliss! As his hand massages the two cockheads together there's the unusual feeling of touch happening as the tips of the heads meet but can't escape to do anything else other than rub in a circular motion around the other. It's the foreskin that acts as a skin sock over the two heads and that's what starts to bring you both to climax. That friction is so warm and sensuous and stimulating that it's a pleasure you hope will never end. But you also know that this unusual act between two horny men is totally going to.

And when one or the other gets to the climax stage then the pulse of hot jizz being pumped into that confined space is ecstasy. Playing this way is sure to bring you both to climax relatively quickly, so don't try to hold back. And don't be surprised if you both cum simultaneously – it's one of those rare times where you'll both be equally stimulated and therefore a joint explosion of hot cum will see the inside of the sheath expanding through the sheer volume of your loads. You can feel it burst forth against the other cockhead and then feel it ooze back around and along the shaft. It feels warm and delicious as he continues with his hand to pump you and help spread the juice along what length of the shaft it can. Can you stand the friction any longer or do you have to pull your shaft out? Either way, as you stand facing one another, you'll be wide-eyed with ecstasy, you'll want to passionately kiss him 'thankyou' and you'll continue to feel his warm hand massaging your sticky shaft.

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From that first ejaculation onwards you'll want to experience that sensuality again and again. My experience is that it's a relatively rare event as there are so few available men who have long foreskins. But such searching makes it all worthwhile when you find one, and he again reminds you of what your cut cock would feel like with a foreskin on it. If it was good enough for the ancient Greeks and Aztecs to enjoy as part of their sexuality, then who are we not to partake.


Note: Two uncircumcised men can dock just as successfully as one circumcised and one uncut. Docking is not exclusively limited to gay men - so long as there are two penises involved, let the games begin.  

Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. No endorsement of unlawful actions is intended or implied  


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THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.
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Wednesday, 30 June 2021

Seniors Make Better Lovers

 



Let's be clear here – I'm not talking about the 'blow and go' scenario, but rather a longer sensual scenario that includes extended time together, conversation, preliminary and post coital play, and a drink of some sort.

 

Seniors have experience, and what they can offer is lovemaking as opposed to just sex. If you haven't experienced the difference, then treat yourself to this situation. It's like comparing a burger at a fast-food establishment to fine-dining with live music. There's no comparison. Both are sexual experiences and both have a definite place in our sexual lexicon but include maturity in the equation and you can be assured of a very special experience.

 

But what do senior/older men, particularly ones who live on their own, bring to the bedroom to make their lovemaking different to that between two young guys?

 

-       Their time is usually open ended, or at least there's several hours of available time – so no need to hurry. Patience is a virtue for them

-       Foreplay is important – kissing, touch, tongue use, warm soapy showers together, massage, hugging

-       They're sexually experienced so enjoy teaching a younger or inexperienced guy the potential pleasures of shared sex. Old dogs know lots of tricks to share

-       They're considerate of their partner's needs, fantasies, inexperience, fears, culture, marriage status, body shape

-       They're more tolerant and understanding. No-one is immune from having had sexual moments they rather the world didn't ever know about so don't expect to be judged. They've seen and been with a wide array of body shapes, age groups, cultures, and egos so little will shock them. They also know that good looks, muscled bodies and big cocks don't necessarily equate to good sex

-       They can usually host and are gracious hosts. Expect the bedroom to be comfortable, clean, organized, with good supplies of condoms, lube, poppers, play toys, towels. Expect to feel safe, comfortable and pampered

-       Intercourse is not always a requirement, nor is it necessary for them to cum. Sometimes due to medical interventions the pleasures are all in the passionate and sensual journey rather than in the climax. Expect them to help get you off, without them necessarily getting off themselves

-       They're open to wider sexual interests and tolerance than just oral and anal. There's role play (especially daddy/son) possibilities, watersports, cross-dressing, BDSM, leather, latex, toys, electro, discipline, food fetishes, 3somes and more-somes, all in a safe and trusting environment

-       If you're looking for your meets to be discrete, then you can trust older men to be more discerning than most others. They know from their own lives about the need for privacy and discretion

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-       Expect to enjoy your conversations. You may learn about the hidden gay lifestyles that existed underground before being gay was legal, amazing gay travel stories, possibly details about extraordinary lifestyles and occupations. Share your experiences with him and both of you will soon be amazing the other with the joyful stories of living a gay lifestyle.

-       Don't always expect safe sex. Many Seniors feel that they've lived a good life and now after decades of complying to safe sex practices they want to enjoy natural bare-back sex.

 

If you're an inexperienced younger man, a married guy starting to explore M2M meetups or another older man, then I recommend that you don't overlook the intense enjoyment and sensual pleasuring that time spent with an older gay man can offer. A senior sexual mentor is someone very special and will add immeasurably to your life.

 

Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. No endorsement of unlawful actions is intended or implied  


Looking for a horny erotic read about gay sex life in Australia? 

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When it is time to have sex with men, you need answers! Don't f**k up the potentially hottest sex time in your life by not knowing the facts. I'm the ex-married gay man who writes this blog, so I'm sharing my experiences with you in this easy-to-read ebook so that your sex with guys can be brilliant and always available. It's the best couple of dollars you'll ever invest! https://www.amazon.com/Straight-Mans-Guide-Same-Hook-Ups-ebook/dp/B00EUBGNTC
 
THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.
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"A straightforward, practical guide for men in heterosexual relationships who'd like to explore sex with other men. Frank, honest and understanding."Kirkus Reviews

 

Thursday, 1 April 2021

I have sex with men - but I'm not gay

 





“I'm not gay, but the guy sucking my dick is."

 

Should straight men having sex with other men be labelled gay or bi? And alternatively, if a gay guy has sex with a woman would he then be regarded as straight?

 

This is a very controversial subject and brings out a lot of issues about how we see ourselves sexually and how we might be judged by others. By simply attaching a broad generic label, we are doing a great disservice to what can be seen as a complex issue. Sexuality is a broad spectrum and any curiosity or deviation from the mainstream should be factored into the answer.

 

I hate labels and prefer to just call myself or any other person - “sexual."

Sexuality is fluid, and when opportunities or desires change, or when curiosity rises to the fore, then a former label might not still be pertinent.

 

In its simplest terms, most straight men are looking for uncomplicated sex and cock relief. Full stop! It`s more about the penis than the man. Emotion, romance, or commitment are not part of the equation.

 

Let's seek answers as to why straight men might have sex with other men:

 

-       Their wives or female partners aren't providing any or very little sexual outlet for them

-       That it's just easier to find sex with men than it is with women

-       That's it's less emotionally involving than with a woman

-       It simply feels good. It's all about cock relief and men know what they like and how to get it – and give it

-       It feels different - a hairy body feels different to a smooth-skinned female

-       There's no chance of pregnancy

-       There's an element of masculine ego at work

-       They love to fuck anally and the female in his life is averse to this

-       He wants a role reversal where he becomes the treated one in the partnership rather than always being in the dominating hunter role

-       That it's purely a physical thing and nothing to do with individual self-proclaimed sexual identity. It's just sex!

-       They want some variety in their life. No-one wants the same meal every day

-       Men continue to want reinforcement that they are successful hunters and to bed a man shows that he's still capable of attracting a sexual mate, whatever age either of them might be

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-       Men love their cocks being sucked whether by a male or a female – another aspect of the purely sexual nature of his hunting

-       It's about guys bonding together through experimentation, especially young guys during teenage and young adult periods of their life

-       Pleasure is pleasure, no matter who you share that with, whatever their adult age or the physical circumstances

-       Men are not always actually attracted to men – they're attracted to the idea of sex with men – and that's a vital difference

-       You're only interested in this subject if you're a man over the age of 30. Anyone younger has few issues with sexual fluidity and couldn't care less about gender or labels

-       Your circumstances dictate your companions (e.g. an all-male jail, oil rig, isolated camp). If your choice of sexual partners is limited to self-masturbation or other men in the same circumstances, I suspect you'll see it as viable, convenient sex and nothing more

 

In summary, I would ask how much of this labelling is mind over matter – we shouldn't get ourselves whipped up into a frenzy over putting ourselves into a particular labelled box. Rather, let us enjoy all the variety and pleasures that sex can bring us, and if we happen to have been regarded as straight up to this point in our lives and now we've had enjoyable sexual relief with a man, then so be it. If you want a label, how about - “sexual“.

 

Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. No endorsement of unlawful actions is intended or implied  


Looking for a horny erotic read about gay sex life in Australia? 

Try my ebooks - each volume contains a hot self-contained story.

When it is time to have sex with men, you need answers! Don't f**k up the potentially hottest sex time in your life by not knowing the facts. I'm the ex-married gay man who writes this blog, so I'm sharing my experiences with you in this easy-to-read ebook so that your sex with guys can be brilliant and always available. It's the best couple of dollars you'll ever invest! https://www.amazon.com/Straight-Mans-Guide-Same-Hook-Ups-ebook/dp/B00EUBGNTC
THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.
e-book and paperback at Amazon.com

For an unidentifiable plain cover eBook edition of The Versatile Husband, go tohttp://www.amazon.com/Versatile-Husband-Plain-Cover-ebook/dp/B009V5AXEI
"A straightforward, practical guide for men in heterosexual relationships who'd like to explore sex with other men. Frank, honest and understanding."Kirkus Reviews