You’re bi-curious, probably even call yourself
bisexual. You’ve introduced the
idea of you and your wife going off to a swingers club in order to spice up
your failing married sex life. It
would be something that you could do together. You figure that if she gets to
play with other men that she might get her mojo back. All the while you get to
not only watch her having sexual fun but you get to experience further aspects
of your own bisexually curious nature with other husbands. That means no guilt because each of you
is exploring your own natural curiosities.
Unfortunately the swinger club idea dies – “I couldn’t have
sex with a stranger – and certainly not in front of other people.” “What about STIs and other
diseases?” “Do they always use
condoms?” “What if I knew
somebody?” etc.
Whilst these are expected reactions it’s been my experience
that in fact more wives than you might consider like the idea of adding a
trusted male friend into the confines of the marital bed if only occasionally.
A known friend seems to lower the threat of damage to her image of her marriage
and of her own morality. Similarly when on vacation when a spontaneous
threesome occurs with a total stranger, that stranger is perceived to be of no
threat.
When discussed beforehand between husband and wife, and then
between husband and friend, it becomes a more natural event. Of course the
friend should also be bisexual or at least bi-curious.
Once agreed, every one knows in advance what is going to
happen, so all that is needed is to set the date and the place. That means no
kids, no opportunity for unexpected drop-in neighbours and no time limits. The
night is for the three of you to be as anxiety free as possible and to be
totally pleasured for as long and as frequently as you all desire. There’s
nothing better than all three sleepily waking up together and having another
round or two. A weekend away at an isolated retreat might be just the place.
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The combinations for enjoyment are many and may include
- kissing
- fondling
- oral
involving wife on friend, husband on friend
- eating
out the wife whilst the other man gets a blow job from her
- voyeuring
as your wife and friend pleasure each other
- filming
as your wife is taken by your friend
- your
wife becomes the sexual meat-in-the-sandwich between her two men
- having
your friend blow you whilst your wife plays with her toys
- watch
her face and sense her excitement as your friend f**ks you
- and
again later in the night as you f**k him while she films you both
- after
the first two rounds sleep for a while and then begin all over again
- have
champagne for breakfast
This is a favourable way to have action with another guy
within the extended parameters of the marital bed. She will appreciate the
touch of romance of it all as this will help lower any guilt or opposition she
might carry in to this first foray about it being dirty, morally wrong or
threatening. If the event happens spontaneously with a stranger without the
romantic overlay in place you both may need to have a deeper talk about future
possibilities – but do this after your
man has departed. The stranger
doesn’t need to be part of your marriage plans as after all he was just with
you both for some good bi-curious fun. Chances are he has his own marital
issues to sort out when he goes home.
Whether you have additional times with another man in the
marital bed will depend on many factors. Perhaps the greatest benefit will be
the opening of dialogue between you and your wife about your sexual needs, and the fact that they include men. It
may be just the turning point that reinvigorates your sex life at home or it
may be time for your wife to say I’m really not interested in sex or playing
with strangers but why don’t you go out and have some fun with men. Don’t bring
them home, play safe and don’t tell me anything about your exploits.
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