Masturbation involving you with others can be divided into at least four possibilities. Each will give a different emotional outcome, so what end result, other than the obvious physical spillage, are you hoping for?
With A Friend:
This is the excitement that comes early in discovering M2M playtime. It's a lot about initial exploring of what another cock feels like to touch. There is that thrill of finding a like-minded playmate who'll happily let you sit beside him, trousers and jocks at his knees, and perhaps while you both distract yourselves by watching porn, it is simply two straight men having a lot of fun without any overtones of suggesting that this activity is in any way “gay“.
Jackoff Group:
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You want more than one man's hand jerking you off, so you seek out an organized j/o group of maybe 10 -50 guys. Many will be married, some will be gay or bi, but all just want the non-threatening companionship of other “straight“ or M2M sexually exploring men. Many of the participants are uneasy about or are not looking for, anal sex. Some like the total nudity factor. It's also a lot about conversation, touch, the variety of ages and body types available, of having sexual fun while perhaps still justifying it by saying to oneself that it's “not proper sex“, so therefore I'm not committing adultery in any shape or form. Perhaps jacking off, (even with the hands of other men), can also be justified as just another part of their otherwise heterosexual sex lives. These groups are usually strong on the social aspects of men sharing a fun sexual experience in a safe environment and are good for bonding, knowing that as a married man who likes masturbating, you need not be lonely and do it on your own. Spontaenous groups of men who are seeking group masturbation can also happen at gay nude beaches, backrooms of sex shops, gay bathhouses/saunas, nightclubs and dance parties, doing the beat and wherever there's some privacy, no matter how temporary that might be.
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'Baters:
These men focus on group masturbation as a primary part of their sexual lives – sometimes exclusively, sometimes not. It's not just a matter of getting your rocks off – it's an art form, where cock-worship (your own or of others) can bring additional pleasures. Touching, stroking, multiple edging towards orgasm but always pulling back, saving the climax for the end of the group. It's also not always necessary or expected, to cum at all, but rather hold in the energy of the seed as expressed in tantric philosophy. It can also become a sexual way of life with 'baters actively seeking out fellow afficionado's who understand the deep satisfaction that can be achieved. Sometimes a small group of men are involved together, sometimes this is a special bonding with just a couple of friends. It's a philosophy that is treated very seriously by the practitioners, where masturbation and the climax of cumming is raised to an art form.
Internet Video Link:
Who hasn't jacked off in front of the computer while other guys, maybe on the other side of the world, are watching via a video link? Naturally there is no physical contact, yet there's the undeniable thrill of us doing something a bit decadent and being watched doing it. Like all aspects of masturbation, especially for us older men, there is still a little part of us that knows that it's a guilty pleasure, possibly something a little bit “dirty“, something our mother's wouldn't approve of. We shouldn't have such feelings, but the trouble is, we do and that's a hangover from repressive childhoods dominated by ignorance, religion and conservative attitudes. It's also something that we can privately participate in yet have the feeling that we're sharing with other like-minded men.
Masturbation is as natural as breathing and as enjoyable as food. It adds immeasurably to our happiness whether we do it by ourselves, with a friend or as part of a bigger group. Just be aware of what emotional satisfaction you're looking for.
By my reckoning, a daily wank between the ages of 15 and 60 years of age, totals up to a staggering 16,425 climaxes. Even at once a week, it stills adds up to 2,340 ejaculations. In my thinking, that's one good amount of pleasure!!! But excuse me, in the absence of other naked guys within ready reach, I think I feel yet another solitary pleasure moment fast approaching…
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