Let's be clear here – I'm not talking about the 'blow and go' scenario, but rather a longer sensual scenario that includes extended time together, conversation, preliminary and post coital play, and a drink of some sort.
Seniors have experience, and what they can offer is lovemaking as opposed to just sex. If you haven't experienced the difference, then treat yourself to this situation. It's like comparing a burger at a fast-food establishment to fine-dining with live music. There's no comparison. Both are sexual experiences and both have a definite place in our sexual lexicon but include maturity in the equation and you can be assured of a very special experience.
But what do senior/older men, particularly ones who live on their own, bring to the bedroom to make their lovemaking different to that between two young guys?
- Their time is usually open ended, or at least there's several hours of available time – so no need to hurry. Patience is a virtue for them
- Foreplay is important – kissing, touch, tongue use, warm soapy showers together, massage, hugging
- They're sexually experienced so enjoy teaching a younger or inexperienced guy the potential pleasures of shared sex. Old dogs know lots of tricks to share
- They're considerate of their partner's needs, fantasies, inexperience, fears, culture, marriage status, body shape
- They're more tolerant and understanding. No-one is immune from having had sexual moments they rather the world didn't ever know about so don't expect to be judged. They've seen and been with a wide array of body shapes, age groups, cultures, and egos so little will shock them. They also know that good looks, muscled bodies and big cocks don't necessarily equate to good sex
- They can usually host and are gracious hosts. Expect the bedroom to be comfortable, clean, organized, with good supplies of condoms, lube, poppers, play toys, towels. Expect to feel safe, comfortable and pampered
- Intercourse is not always a requirement, nor is it necessary for them to cum. Sometimes due to medical interventions the pleasures are all in the passionate and sensual journey rather than in the climax. Expect them to help get you off, without them necessarily getting off themselves
- They're open to wider sexual interests and tolerance than just oral and anal. There's role play (especially daddy/son) possibilities, watersports, cross-dressing, BDSM, leather, latex, toys, electro, discipline, food fetishes, 3somes and more-somes, all in a safe and trusting environment
- If you're looking for your meets to be discrete, then you can trust older men to be more discerning than most others. They know from their own lives about the need for privacy and discretion
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- Don't always expect safe sex. Many Seniors feel that they've lived a good life and now after decades of complying to safe sex practices they want to enjoy natural bare-back sex.
If you're an inexperienced younger man, a married guy starting to explore M2M meetups or another older man, then I recommend that you don't overlook the intense enjoyment and sensual pleasuring that time spent with an older gay man can offer. A senior sexual mentor is someone very special and will add immeasurably to your life.
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