Wednesday, 18 June 2014

Groin Gazing, Basket Watching and Boner Alert


Basket-watcher, crotch-watching, checking the family jewels, eyeing the bulge, checking his lunch, budgie smugglers or playing what's-in-the-package, they all mean the same.

Whether you’re cruising for sex or just looking at the smorgasbord of delectable men in your area, don’t underestimate the power of erotic stimulation through crotch watching to fire up your imagination.

I love looking at a man’s genital area. Every man that passes in the street offers potential erotic thoughts for me. It’s not that I will in reality get to have sex with him, but the way he presents himself is what turns me on. It’s me imagining what lurks behind the bulge (or otherwise) that fires up my sexual libido. And if an erection is spied, then my imagination goes into overdrive.

It also tells me a lot about that man and his self image.

Does he dress to the left, the right, down a leg or tucked between his legs? That is, does he like his cock to be comfortable in a particular position? How this is presented for my pleasurable viewing depends on his penis length and girth, the type of underwear he has on (if any) and the fabric his trousers or shorts are made of. Is the bulging package the result of him wearing a cock-ring or jock bolster enhancement? Only my imagination can answer those questions.

Is this what you fantasised as being under the suit?

See a business-man striding down the sidewalk smartly dressed in a suit with an eight inch arrow pointing down his leg immediately says “confidence” about himself – and probably that he is wearing boxers to allow his ‘trouser snake’ to fall as desired.

If there is a big bulge in a tight pair of jeans that can mean a thick cock tightly packed into sculptured Lycra jocks. There’s nowhere for that cock to go other than to push out a bulge to an admiring world.

Look at those underwear photos in any mail order catalogue and what do you see? Yep, sexual potential and erotic stimulation. So what if the models are totally unobtainable sexually, it’s still a great sexual stimulant to get your thoughts fired up. The brain is the best sex organ in the body, so exercise it with thoughts about what you would like to do with your man in the photo.

And what of sportsmen? How many men, both straight and gay, admire a sportsman’s groin as they watch them on television – and think about all those photos we have stored away in our memory of locker-room hunks and athletes in bulging jockstraps. So many different sport uniforms emphasise the power of muscle, of masculinity and strength, and highlighting a crotch area gives that additional erotic interest to the viewer.

With huge numbers of us being sporting ‘couch-potatoes’ and with the television camera lenses being so crystal clear and close-up, it’s an ideal combination to keep us watching. Without having to share thoughts with our viewing mates we can quietly admire the sexual broodiness and erotic potential that these sportsmen can offer us. After watching a game over a couple of hours is there any wonder that sex after a big match can be a very hot experience and a great way to relieve that built up horniness.

And what about the joys of hot weather when shorts appear? Special note to fashion trend-setters: please bring back tight shorts for men as a fashion statement. Voyeuring men around the world would appreciate that. Best voyeuring spots ever are the building construction sites.  Wow! so many rugged men in such tight little shorts!

All photos courtesy Tumblr
And for a highlight moment in summer don’t you just love it when an interesting man wearing a wet pair of tight, brief speedos passes you on the beach and leaves nothing to your imagination.

Whatever the season, crotch-watching is a wonderful pastime. As most men are constantly thinking erotic thoughts and where their next sex is coming from, what better stimulant than to be a groin gazer? It costs nothing, it is always available, no one need know you’re doing it – and if luck goes your way, maybe there’s some unexpected instant sex as a result.
As the old saying goes “It pays to advertise!”




A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS: How And Where To Find Your Man 

When it is time to have sex with men, you need answers! 

Don't f**k up the potentially hottest sex time in your life by not knowing the facts. I'm the ex-married gay man who writes this blog, so I'm sharing my experiences with you in this easy-to-read ebook so that your sex with guys can be brilliant and always available. 

It's the best couple of dollars you'll ever invest!

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THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.

e-book and paperback at Amazon.com or
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"A straightforward, practical guide for men in heterosexual relationships who'd like to explore sex with other men. Frank, honest and understanding."Kirkus Reviews


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Sunday, 25 May 2014

Sex at the Nude Gay Beach


Summer. Nudity. Beaches. Sex. Group Masturbation. Voyeuring. That’s a combination that’s destined to always prove popular.

All Photos Courtesy Tumblr
Let’s look at the more isolated beaches away from the families and the madding crowds, those stretches of sand dunes, stunted trees and hidden hideaway spaces where nudity and sex happens.

If you have access to a nude beach, legal or otherwise, it will generally be beyond the popular family beach area. As you walk away from that area it’s likely you’ll pass the mixed nudist beach catering for both men and women. Walk some more, and that will be the gay boys beach. It’s always the furthest from anywhere, and the most isolated – and that makes sex irresistible. It will also probably mean that you won’t be disturbed by anyone other than those who desire to be there. You just have to be male, be happy to have your naked body looked at by all the other men, and if you are interested in doing so, joining in whatever sexual action is happening – and be watched whilst you are doing it.

A day at the male nude beach offers the full spectrum of life. There are the mature age men with sun-aged leather skin who sit on the highest point to watch and evaluate every new arrival. There’s the modest young guy who, underneath his towel, will change into his swimsuit – but a few minutes later will be having sex in a group with no regard for who is watching. There’s the male couple that bring the complete picnic hamper and offer food morsels to tempt their young admirers into sharing more than food. There’s the married man who has the eye of an eagle watching for any sign of sexual activity into which he might be invited. There’s the lie-in-the-full-sun man who is baking like a lobster and is determined to go home with a super tan. There’s the two or three having sex on their towel whilst the itinerant voyeurs linger and stroke their erections before they move on into the bushes to further their quest. There’s the clearing in the bushes that is empty one minute and then like magic, a group appears, they have their way with each other, then disperse into the dappled foliage like forest nymphs.

Some stroll the walking tracks naked (usually those with a big cock – yes, it pays to flaunt it), some wear shorts or swimwear. Pockets can be helpful to carry your poppers, condoms and/or lube. Sex is mostly anonymous and to a frequent degree, bareback. Without a towel casually slung over a shoulder, sex could be a sandy affair or a totally stand-up/bend-over experience.

After sex there is the ever-so-casual walk to the water in order to wash off. That is wonderful theatre to watch as the recent sexual participant seeks to visually display his sexual innocence. Everyone knows he’s just blown a load and probably had one shoot on him as well, yet the reason we are all at that isolated nude beach he is unable to easily accept.  Having even a drop of cum on your body is still taboo for many.

Occasionally you’ll find a man wander along the beach that has come from the mixed nude section. He’s a bit hesitant but a quick blow job before he has to get back to his lady-friend would really make his afternoon. It’s surprising how often a straight nudist, ‘innocently’ out for a walk in the sun, happens to find himself in the midst of a group of sexually active nude men!

Sometimes as you pass the straight nude beach you’ll observe sex taking place there – perhaps a woman astride her man giving him oral or perhaps a muscle man humping his delighted lady-friend.

All of us with broad minds and tolerance enjoy being nude at the beach. If sex happens, that’s a bonus. Many still require some degree of privacy or at least not being the main subject of close voyeurism. Let everyone enjoy the sex they want, with whomsoever they choose and wherever. It’s an adults only area and therefore sexual activity is merely an expression of our real selves whether that be with strangers or our loving companion.

Two warnings:
-       Don’t get cock burn! It’s painful sunburn like you don’t want to know about
-       Use plenty of sunscreen all over your body – and often. Ask your naked neighbour to assist in putting it on your shoulders. It’s the ideal way to start a conversation and to begin a potential sexual encounter

Other hints:
- wear some form of footwear when cruising. Tree roots, ants, used condoms, burning hot sand can ruin your day out
-       take plenty of bottled water as most nude beaches are isolated from any amenities
-       take condoms, lube and poppers (amyl) and add some insect repellent and a generous size towel
-       wear a cap or if you burn easily, a wide brimmed hat
-       depending on the beach, a knowledge of high and low tide can make returning to your car easy or very difficult
-       watch out for snakes, spiders and other local bush wildlife
-       make sure your car is locked and anything that even looks slightly valuable is locked away. Car thieves love parked cars in isolated areas. Also keep your house/car keys in a safe place. I've spent too many hours of my life helping others search seemingly acres of sand looking for the keys that will get them home again. It's not a good feeling for the guy who has the loss
-       and with sexual etiquette, as in other sexual situations “No” means NO!

Have a fun summer!




CRUISING THE 
GAY NUDE BEACH by Brad Fox (ebook)
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Under the scorching Australian summer sun, adventurous gay men and their bi-curious mates find sex at the isolated gay nude beach alluring, available and irresistible. Whether it be at the water's edge, along the bush tracks or amid the rocky outcrops, whether it be one-to-one, a group activity or just watching it happen, whatever your age there seems to always be a naked man (or two) waiting to share pleasure with you. Join American sex explorer Harrison Hawk on this his next Australian sex adventure as he discovers for himself the delights of plundering the 'family jewels' of these sun-worshipping masculine Aussie men, both young and mature, cut and uncut. What of the oral allures of Lawson, the young blonde-haired surfer? Or the temptations of middle-aged hunk 'Mr. Right Now' trolling the rocky outcrop in search of anal attention. And what brings the whole naked beach community together to watch and participate?

Written by a gay man who actively participates in gay nude beach sexual activity, the erotic descriptions are authentically male, intimate, detailed and horny. It's over 11,500 words of adult male content for your pleasure.
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NOTE: Everyone can now read Kindle ebooks: If you use an iphone or other smartphone, tablet or computer simply download the FREE app on the Amazon book page next to the Book Description and you'll be up and reading in seconds. Or visit: http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html?docId=1000493771


A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS: How And Where To Find Your Man 

When it is time to have sex with men, you need answers! 

Don't f**k up the potentially hottest sex time in your life by not knowing the facts. I'm the ex-married gay man who writes this blog, so I'm sharing my experiences with you in this easy-to-read ebook so that your sex with guys can be brilliant and always available. 

It's the best couple of dollars you'll ever invest!

ebook download at:


THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.

e-book and paperback at Amazon.com or
paperback only at your favourite online or local bookstore.

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"A straightforward, practical guide for men in heterosexual relationships who'd like to explore sex with other men. Frank, honest and understanding."Kirkus Reviews