Wednesday 29 August 2012

Voyeuring: Watching Live Sex


A gay bathhouse is a great place for a man to discover how comfortable – or otherwise - he is with nudity and his sexuality. One of these aspects is voyeuring – or being able to watch actual sex happening right before your eyes. Some men love to have an audience whilst they are having sex. Many don’t, and therefore private cubicles are available for them. Watching sex on the Internet is a distancing event that allows viewing without active participation.  Whereas seeing sex happening within touching distance brings in more than a dash of the “Forbidden Apple”. The first time this happens it will rivet your attention. It is such an unusual position to find yourself in that you can’t take your eyes off what is happening. There’s also the sounds, the energy, the guilt, the explosive excitement of being there, the thought of wanting to touch the participants to reinforce that this is really happening to you – and your own sexual excitement will be very much heightened. If you are watching with others perhaps additional sex will begin to take place.  Public sex is also such an unusual, yet deeply entrancing event to have witnessed that you can expect the images will stay with you for many days, or indeed, much longer.  It’s another reminder as to where we as individuals stand in relation to our sexual boundaries.  Would you let a stranger watch you having sex?

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