Your Underwear Defines Your Sexual Confidence

(taken from THE VERSATILE HUSBAND by Peter Benn - Page 94) 
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Underwear – such a simple word, yet a word filled with emotion and latent sexual expectation.  At their simplest, underpants cover a man’s genitals and buttocks.  They add comfort, support, warmth – they’re very practical.  And that is generally the approach taken when a wife shops for her husband.

But they are much more than that. They are symbols of how a man feels about himself and his masculinity.  They should make him feel good, feel sexually masculine and empower him with confidence.

Does your wife buy your underwear?  Is it underwear that your father or grandfather might have worn? Is it the cheapest, safest, whitest, and most conservative underwear on the market?  Are all pairs the same? Do they glaringly say that here is a man who is not in control of his life – especially his masculine and sexual image of himself?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these, then it’s time for a makeover.

Interesting, stylish, feel-good jocks are an important statement about yourself. There’s a bewildering range of styles, cuts, shapes, materials and colors available, so there’s no excuse in not being able to find ones that make you feel good, feel sexy, and/or make you aware of your sex organs throughout the day.  The latter reminds a man that he has sexual energy trapped in his groin that is growing stronger and will need satisfying some time soon. A constant reminder that your horniness is increasing is a feeling of being alive to your masculinity.

And buy lots of different pairs, styles and colors so that as your mood is defined at the time of dressing you can choose a style or color that fits your expectations for the day. As a man becomes more sexual, so his interest in equating stylish, exciting, even erotic underwear grows apace.  If a guy feels good ‘down there’ then his whole attitude to life changes to a more confident one.

And remember – if you’re having gay sex in a gay world, then your underwear can immediately tell your partner a lot about you – and you don’t want to project an image of a conservative wife being in charge of your masculinity. Underwear helps to define a sexual man, so begin enjoying the sensual benefits and enormous variety that this industry gives us.