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We all seem to love looking at them trying
to imagine what a well-hung, 9 inches plus, beer can girth, monster erection
could do for our sex life.
So today let’s take a brief look at the
issues of enjoying sex when the penis is a whopper - or at least above 'average'.
Reality:
It’s estimated that 4 out of 5 men have a
penis that grows much larger during erection. But when all men are erect the
difference in length between each is considerably less than you might imagine.
It’s a much more even playing field than what you see flaccid. If you’re more
than 6 inches erect, then you can probably classify yourself as big or at
least, larger than average. Of course there are magnificent exceptions.
Watching:
The showers are always a fabulous place to
linger and watch for large man meat. Checking out to see if the tall bulky built man
is equally as well endowed below is a game I like to play as I watch. My
favourite shower scene is the Thermos Sauna (bathhouse) in Amsterdam. For anyone with an
interest in the larger penis this is a fantasy come true. It’s not only the
local Dutchmen who are well hung, but men from all over Europe and the world
provide an equally intoxicating visual display. And most are not particularly
aware that they are bigger than ‘average’. Such modesty! There’s always been
talk that a long index finger can also mean a long penis. So with that in mind
I do my best research in front of the showers. But by my amateur reckoning,
height seems to be more of a factor for longer length than anything else. Check out a
tall basketball height man naked and see if I’m not right.
Fantasy and Myth:
So many of us use porn stars as our
criteria for judging equipment size that we perpetuate the myth that you can
only have great sex if your partner is well hung. When we look at dating
profiles or other sexual hookups sites we tend to look towards the guys who are
well hung (that is, anything bigger than we are) and as such, we then assume
that they will be able to sexually satisfy us better than someone ‘average’ or
smaller. In my experience, big does not automatically equate to a guaranteed
high performance level. When making our choice of partner there are other
criteria including sensuality, height, age, body shape, etc yet invariably we
initially focus on the cock as being the be-all and end-all of potential
satisfaction.
Oral:
When you are going down on that semi-erect
cock that has just plopped out of his jocks, you’ll soon know if you’ve
over-estimated your oral dexterity. How often when faced with the engorged
reality have we uttered “FAAAARRK”, given a deep gulp in preparation and
done a reality check on ourselves as to how we are going to tame this monster.
After all we don’t want the shame of not being able to perform. Whatever your
expletive, chances are the guy has heard it many times before. He knows that
some adept guys will be able to take all or much of the length into their
mouth, yet there will be others who will only be able to cope with the head.
Just get on with the job and he won’t mind either way. You’re the man of the
moment so he’s not going anywhere. Any warm mouth when you’re naked and horny
is expedient. Enthusiastically
give him as fun a time as you can. If you can’t take a lot into your mouth and
down the throat, then use that tongue all over his balls, shaft and especially
around the base of the head. Gently circle and wank the base of his shaft with
your fingers. Combine this with tonguing of the delicate glans area at the base of his penis head, (especially in a circulatory
direction) and you’ll send him to ecstasy. If you’re going to take his load in
your mouth, be prepared for the volume he could pump out, and also that in his
enthusiasm he might well extend your mouth as he thrusts into it. And keep your
teeth well out of the way - it will kill any further activity if he feels them.
Anal:
If you’re a newbie to being a bottom in
anal sex, then don’t let your imagination overtake the reality of how much cock
your anal canal can actually take. With time, lots of finger manipulation,
maybe even with some dildo stretching, many an anus can open beyond what you
imagine you are capable of. Liberal use of lubrication is important and a slow
staggered entry of the large cock is advised. This is also a good time for that
first whiff of poppers (amyl) if you are so inclined to take the edge off any
slight anticipatory pain. Firstly, try to take his head. Get comfortable with
that, have him withdraw and then re-insert going a little further the second
time. Make noise and let him know how he’s doing. Take deep breathes. Moan like
there’s no tomorrow if you have to. Now repeat this. As he presses to pass the
sphincter you’ll realise just how large he really is. Hang in there (and bite
the pillow as they say) as once it passes and your sphincter relaxes then the
sex will be amazing. This is one moment you’ll never forget. You’ll feel every
part of his immense cock pressing against the anal walls. As he plunges and
touches deep within you you’ll know there are internal organs that you didn’t
know you had. You’ll be amazed at the passage of every inch of his withdrawal
and return plunge. Back up on to him so that sometimes you take control of the
depth and speed. Ask for more lubricant if you feel you need it. Relaxing that
sphincter will immeasurably add to your pleasure. And say “enough is enough” if
at any time you know you have reached your limits. There’s no shame in that.
You do not want tearing as that will not only be painful but will require
medical treatment and a considerable healing period - very hard to explain to
partners and wives.
And do douche before you attempt taking a
large cock (or any cock for that matter). Here's my blog entry to show you how . When your canal is not empty then a long cock pressing against the
feces can be very painful and uncomfortable for both of you.
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| All photos this page courtesy tumblr |
So go and find your well-hung man, enjoy the
particular talents he can offer you, use your own special talents back on him
and together you’ll have a ride to remember.
And I leave you with this one conundrum –
why is it so often the case that the man who displays his big erection on the
dating sex site to lure potential sex partners is “only a bottom”? Oh well, the rest of us can look and
try to imagine what it might feel like “if only he would top me.”
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