But elimination of all pubic hair doesn’t have the same wide appeal that a neatly trimmed bush does. Yes, shaved balls are common, as are upper torsos devoid of all hair. The fact is, a hairless area between the navel and shaft is the area of most contention whereas a trimmed manscape is much more acceptable as it shows pride in your appearance and can add greatly to sex appeal.
Before having a total shave (or indeed a trim), take a
moment to consider who you are doing this for – is it for yourself or is it to
fit into the ‘uniform’ and sexual expectations of the group of men that you associate with or want to
attract. Break with sexual convention and you could find yourself not so
welcome in that particular sexual community. For example, bears like their men to be natural and that
means with beard and body hair, whereas if you’re young, gym fit with a body to
match, then hair removal is generally a desirable activity.
Remember the desirability of a body is in the eye of the
beholder and therefore what is right for one man will be a complete turnoff for
another. So when you are deciding you might like to consider these aspects
regarding shaving, clipping and waxing.
And ask yourself the question; “If I shaved my head to a
baldness level will I still appear to be sexually attractive to the men I’d
like to be sexual with, or would it be a turn-off to them? Would a buzz cut be
the equivalent of a pubic trim and still make me attractive?” What turns men
off with a haircut will, I suggest, do the same lower down.
There’s also the question of explaining to your wife or
partner your new enthusiasm for looking good ‘down there’. After a long period
of accepting yourself as naturally hairy what is it that has turned all that
around? Start preparing your
answer.
Waxing: Back, Sac and
Crack:
The Hollywood – is a complete ridding of all your hair on
the back, sac and crack.
The Colombian – you decide how much of the chest, pubic
and ball sac hair you want removed. Some consider taking it all off above a tan
line thus leaving just a nice furry patch (with crack hair removal being
optional). Whatever you choose this is the best method to create boundaries.
Create your own mood and style.
The Male Brazilian - is the most popular for it lets you
decide how much is removed and how much remains. Generally this is focused on a
total removal for the back, sac, crack and shaft with consideration of some
pubic hair remaining.
It looks good: that’s in the eye of the beholder of course,
but many men do appreciate the defining look that you can sculpture
It feels good: the owner feels free and ‘different’ with
hair removed. A body change also emphasises horniness and therefore
concentrates the mind towards finding sex in order to show it off whilst it’s
so smooth. Makes you feel good and strongly masculine empowered
It doesn’t hurt – with shaving foam and a safety razor
(disposable razors are good for this purpose) you’re in charge and it is no
more painful than a face shave
Shave carefully – bloodied sacs don’t look all that
attractive and whilst cuts are healing there’s the added risk of infection. It
can be that by the time you heal, it’s again time for removal of the stubble
re-growth
The Number One reason: your penis looks bigger - both to you
and your potential admirers!!!
What better advertising method is there?
No more stray pubic hairs lodging in the mouth and between
the teeth of your partner. Oral sex is sooooo much nicer without fighting through tufts of
undergrowth (well, that’s my experienced opinion)
Lube slides easily over smooth skin as do parts of the male
anatomy in search of a good time. Smooth skin accentuates skin-to-skin
pleasuring
Trimmed or shaved hair on your body can also make catching
crabs a little less likely and it’s certainly easier to locate them if you do
get them
Post Shave or Wax:
Don’t put an after-shave on your freshly shaved or waxed sac – it will sting,
but do use Vitamin E cream to aid in the healing and to limit any rash. And to avoid the ever-present ingrown
hair issue have your waxing therapist or drug store recommend a good skin
enhancer. I’m reliably told that a moisturiser containing tea-tree oil is excellent as are most everyday
hand creams.
Against Being Hairless:
Hairs, especially on the balls are an aid to cooling the
body. So in warm weather expect a hairless sac to find friction against the
inner leg especially if it too is hairless
Smoothness lasts only a few days (or less) and you need to
shave again. Shaving is a high maintenance activity compared to waxing
Itchiness as the hairs grow back to normal length.
Personally I’ve found that it’s far less itchy following a waxing than after a
shaving.
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Perhaps
this is the best of both worlds. You can do it yourself with hair clippers or scissors, get
your partner to assist in the harder to reach regions of your body or you can
have it professionally done at a waxing salon. It allows you to look and feel
sexier. It’s only a weekly maintenance effort for the pubic area, chest and crack, and a monthly
one for hairy legs and buttocks - and it gives you induced pride in your masculinity. If it does nothing else,
you’ll feel great about yourself and brim with a renewed confidence.
And that means a sexual glow that is very attractive to other men! You decide.
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