The Versatile Husband : May 2014

Sunday, 25 May 2014

Sex at the Nude Gay Beach

Summer. Nudity. Beaches. Sex. Group Masturbation. Voyeuring. That’s a combination that’s destined to always prove popular.

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Let’s look at the more isolated beaches away from the families and the madding crowds, those stretches of sand dunes, stunted trees and hidden hideaway spaces where nudity and sex happens.

If you have access to a nude beach, legal or otherwise, it will generally be beyond the popular family beach area. As you walk away from that area it’s likely you’ll pass the mixed nudist beach catering for both men and women. Walk some more, and that will be the gay boys beach. It’s always the furthest from anywhere, and the most isolated – and that makes sex irresistible. It will also probably mean that you won’t be disturbed by anyone other than those who desire to be there. You just have to be male, be happy to have your naked body looked at by all the other men, and if you are interested in doing so, joining in whatever sexual action is happening – and be watched whilst you are doing it.

A day at the male nude beach offers the full spectrum of life. There are the mature age men with sun-aged leather skin who sit on the highest point to watch and evaluate every new arrival. There’s the modest young guy who, underneath his towel, will change into his swimsuit – but a few minutes later will be having sex in a group with no regard for who is watching. There’s the male couple that bring the complete picnic hamper and offer food morsels to tempt their young admirers into sharing more than food. There’s the married man who has the eye of an eagle watching for any sign of sexual activity into which he might be invited. There’s the lie-in-the-full-sun man who is baking like a lobster and is determined to go home with a super tan. There’s the two or three having sex on their towel whilst the itinerant voyeurs linger and stroke their erections before they move on into the bushes to further their quest. There’s the clearing in the bushes that is empty one minute and then like magic, a group appears, they have their way with each other, then disperse into the dappled foliage like forest nymphs.

Some stroll the walking tracks naked (usually those with a big cock – yes, it pays to flaunt it), some wear shorts or swimwear. Pockets can be helpful to carry your poppers, condoms and/or lube. Sex is mostly anonymous and to a frequent degree, bareback. Without a towel casually slung over a shoulder, sex could be a sandy affair or a totally stand-up/bend-over experience.

After sex there is the ever-so-casual walk to the water in order to wash off. That is wonderful theatre to watch as the recent sexual participant seeks to visually display his sexual innocence. Everyone knows he’s just blown a load and probably had one shoot on him as well, yet the reason we are all at that isolated nude beach he is unable to easily accept. Having even a drop of cum on your body is still taboo for many.

Occasionally you’ll find a man wander along the beach that has come from the mixed nude section. He’s a bit hesitant but a quick blow job before he has to get back to his lady-friend would really make his afternoon. It’s surprising how often a straight nudist, ‘innocently’ out for a walk in the sun, happens to find himself in the midst of a group of sexually active nude men!

Sometimes as you pass the straight nude beach you’ll observe sex taking place there – perhaps a woman astride her man giving him oral or perhaps a muscle man humping his delighted lady-friend.

All of us with broad minds and tolerance enjoy being nude at the beach. If sex happens, that’s a bonus. Many still require some degree of privacy or at least not being the main subject of close voyeurism. Let everyone enjoy the sex they want, with whomsoever they choose and wherever. It’s an adults only area and therefore sexual activity is merely an expression of our real selves whether that be with strangers or our loving companion.

Two warnings:

- Don’t get cock burn! It’s painful sunburn like you don’t want to know about

- Use plenty of sunscreen all over your body – and often. Ask your naked neighbour to assist in putting it on your shoulders. It’s the ideal way to start a conversation and to begin a potential sexual encounter

Other hints:

- wear some form of footwear when cruising. Tree roots, ants, used condoms, burning hot sand can ruin your day out

- take plenty of bottled water as most nude beaches are isolated from any amenities

- take condoms, lube and poppers (amyl) and add some insect repellent and a generous size towel

- wear a cap or if you burn easily, a wide brimmed hat

- depending on the beach, a knowledge of high and low tide can make returning to your car easy or very difficult

- watch out for snakes, spiders and other local bush wildlife

- make sure your car is locked and anything that even looks slightly valuable is locked away. Car thieves love parked cars in isolated areas. Also keep your house/car keys in a safe place. I've spent too many hours of my life helping others search seemingly acres of sand looking for the keys that will get them home again. It's not a good feeling for the guy who has the loss

- and with sexual etiquette, as in other sexual situations “No” means NO!

Have a fun summer!

Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. No endorsement of unlawful actions is intended or implied

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Thursday, 8 May 2014

Gay Male Gangbang and Group Sex: All For One and One For All

A hotel room is a terrific location where a group of guys, especially those who are partnered or can’t host, and perhaps totally unknown to one another, can meet at a specified time for group sex.

Usually there’s a co-ordinator who will be central to this making this event happen. An invitation to participate usually begins through word-of-mouth, or more likely, via a gay dating website where the organiser puts on his profile the idea of the event and invites interested guys to contact him for the details. Sometimes a nude photo is required for approval, particularly if the group is age, body, ethnic or sexually specific. Sometimes it’s a traveller who is staying in the city for a few days who has limited time and wants to host as many broad-minded men as he can cope with. One event solves his dilemma.

After you get approved and the location details are advised, you may be asked for a small contribution to cover costs for the hire of the room, or if you are the guest of a tourist then taking some form of drink is appreciated. If you can also manage to bring a towel, some lube and/or condoms they are always appreciated. At the time of invitation you should also ask as to whether it will be bareback sex, safe sex, or both. What about the use of amyl (poppers) or other drugs? What should you bring? Is the host providing condoms, lube and encouraging safe sex? Will there be photos or video taken?

Contrary to the over active messages your imagination will be sending to your groin as to how this fantasy will unwind (and it is a HUGE fantasy for most guys) you need to recognise within your self if you are sexually confidant enough to participate.

Are you confidant enough

- to be nude

- to have other guys watch you having sex

- to participate in sex with other guys

- to have multiple guys suck and fuck you

- to suck and fuck other guys

- to play with anonymous strangers, some of whom may not be to your particular liking

- to have unsafe bareback sex without condoms

The events are not always safe sex ones, so if this is the case you are playing with fire. Catching sexual infections and being exposed to HIV (whether known or not to the participants) are possible realities and increase the potential of a husband inadvertently taking a little something extra home that is unwanted. It’s your decision as to whether you participate in bareback sex but my suggestion is that whenever you decide on sex that you always think of the safety of your other partner(s) as well as your own health.

The great joy of a gangbang is that everyone plays in the one space and that means everyone plays with everyone else. A gangbang is not the place to decide to be a sexual couple and the two of you only having lust for each other. It’s all for one and one for all. That means hearing, watching and being in the thick of all the action.

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If you’re a bottom and want to be fucked by other men then all you have to do is lube up and place your derriere in a position where guys, one by one, can attend to your needs. Some guys pride themselves on the number of different guys who will screw them. Oral is given and received on a rotating basis and not carried on by one person until ejaculation. There may be rimming. Hands willingly assist erections of your fellow players. Amyl/poppers may be shared, kissing, touching and body contact encouraged, brief time-out periods for drinks, lots of shared sensuality between small groups as well as the central one.

Expect laughter, raucous ejaculation approval, verbalising of orgasms and erotic enjoyment. Short periods of voyeuring as you take in the action scene are ok, but a gangbang is about joining in, sharing multiple partners and being part of the action. If you’re not willing to play with a wide range of men, some of whom you may have little affinity with, then don’t attend. It’s all about erotic sexual indulgence, multiple orgasms, shared masculinity, feeling sexually deviant and dirty, pushing your pleasure boundaries and living the bacchanalian lifestyle.

Gangbangs are about sex, and lust, and fantasies fulfilled. They are not intimate affairs between two guys in private. See this form of group sex as an additional opportunity to indulge in masculine bonding that will never happen in your own marital home.

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