A hotel room is a terrific location where a
group of guys, especially those who are partnered or can’t host, and perhaps
totally unknown to one another, can meet at a specified time for group sex.
Usually there’s a co-ordinator who will be central to this making this event happen. An
invitation to participate usually begins through word-of-mouth, or more
likely, via a gay dating website where the organiser puts on his profile the
idea of the event and invites interested guys to contact him for the details.
Sometimes a nude photo is required for approval, particularly if the group is
age, body, ethnic or sexually specific.
Sometimes it’s a traveller who is staying in the city for a few days who
has limited time and wants to host as many broad-minded men as he can cope
with. One event solves his dilemma.
After you get approved and the location
details are advised, you may be asked for a small contribution to cover costs
for the hire of the room, or if you are the guest of a tourist then taking some
form of drink is appreciated. If you can also manage to bring a towel, some
lube and/or condoms they are always appreciated. At the time of invitation you
should also ask as to whether it will be bareback sex, safe sex, or both. What
about the use of amyl (poppers) or other drugs? What should you bring? Is the host providing condoms, lube and
encouraging safe sex? Will there
be photos or video taken?
Contrary to the over active messages your
imagination will be sending to your groin as to how this fantasy will unwind
(and it is a HUGE fantasy for most guys) you need to recognise within your self
if you are sexually confidant enough to participate.
Are you confidant enough
- to be nude
- to have other guys watch you having sex
- to participate in sex with other guys
- to have multiple guys suck and fuck you
- to suck and fuck other guys
- to play with anonymous strangers, some of
whom may not be to your particular liking
- to have unsafe bareback sex without condoms
The events are not always safe sex ones, so
if this is the case you are playing with fire. Catching sexual infections and
being exposed to HIV (whether known or not to the participants) are possible realities
and increase the potential of a husband inadvertently taking a little something
extra home that is unwanted. It’s your decision as to whether you participate
in bareback sex but my suggestion is that whenever you decide on sex that you
always think of the safety of your other partner(s) as well as your own health.
The great joy of a gangbang is that
everyone plays in the one space and that means everyone plays with everyone
else. A gangbang is not the place
to decide to be a sexual couple and the two of you only having lust for each
other. It’s all for one and one for all. That means hearing, watching and being
in the thick of all the action.
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If you’re a bottom and want to be fucked by
other men then all you have to do is lube up and place your derriere in a
position where guys, one by one, can attend to your needs. Some guys pride
themselves on the number of different guys who will screw them. Oral is given
and received on a rotating basis and not carried on by one person until
ejaculation. There may be rimming. Hands willingly assist erections of your
fellow players. Amyl/poppers may be shared, kissing, touching and body contact
encouraged, brief time-out periods for drinks, lots of shared sensuality
between small groups as well as the central one.
Expect laughter, raucous ejaculation
approval, verbalising of orgasms and erotic enjoyment. Short periods of
voyeuring as you take in the action scene are ok, but a gangbang is about
joining in, sharing multiple partners and being part of the action. If you’re
not willing to play with a wide range of men, some of whom you may have little
affinity with, then don’t attend. It’s all about erotic sexual indulgence,
multiple orgasms, shared masculinity, feeling sexually deviant and dirty, pushing your
pleasure boundaries and living the bacchanalian lifestyle.
Gangbangs are about sex, and lust, and
fantasies fulfilled. They are not intimate affairs between two guys in private. See this form of group sex as an additional opportunity to indulge in
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Another very informative post. You've pretty much described the events as they happen. The warnings for guys who've never experienced one are right on the money. And the suggestions for attending are good, as well. Hosts appreciate attendees contributing in some way to cover the costs.
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