Tuesday, 5 July 2016

Nude Night at the Gay Bathhouse/Sauna

Sixty or more guys of all ages, totally naked in a confined area, all seeking unashamed hot sex. That's what a Nude Night (or afternoon) at a gay bathhouse/sauna is like. At other times, modesty prevails as men on the hunt wear towels to hide their sexual assets. But at towel-less sessions everything is on display for all to view, consider and then if interested, chase after. Erections, thick cocks, shy cocks, uncut cocks, shaved pubes, hairy butts - they're all on display - and more.

At these events it's all about sex and often that means anonymous group sex. It's NOT an occasion for slow sex sessions with perhaps a conversation included. No! It's about getting off now, with as many guys as you care to share, about having physical contact and insertion without caring too much about who, what or why. When there's an orifice, a mouth, a penis available for use, then go with it.

It's a very friendly event as guys are there because of their sexual and naked confidence. They want to do as gay men have done for generations and that is have multiple, abandoned, anonymous and pleasurable group sex with one another in the time honored tradition. It's all masculine testosterone driven and it's all about satisfying the sex drive, the frustrations of relationships (both male and female) and the lack of male intimacy and bonding that pervades so many men's lives. It's about giving, receiving and enjoying without making judgement. There's precious few other places where naked men can bond in such an open display of masculinity and camaraderie of like-minds.

There's the crowded corridors where you can brush past other naked guys, touch and smile, make eye and verbal contact, start some action. Cubicle doors are often left open to invite the voyeur and the next participant into the established on-going action. The dark rooms specialize in men with their naked butts in the air inviting the next punter to use his ass for as long as he wants to. It's a high turnover affair with an unwritten law that sees many a participant notching up a considerable number of sexual encounters before considering cumming. It's about how many men ride the guy who wants to be gang-banged. About how many guys can I fuck in one night. It's about numbers rather than quality.

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Exhibitionism is everywhere. It's not a time for the shy man - there's quite simply nowhere to hide. It's a great opportunity for the 'average' guy to get to see and play with guys who he would normally not get to first base with. It's frequently about whoever is next to you will do for the moment before moving on to the next opportunity. It's about hearing and watching sex taking place just as much as participating. It's an erotic and stimulating environment for the senses. The reality is that there are such events as these that you can participate in and not just fantasize about.

The event is also a sexual reality check. Is the reality of being nude in front of sixty or more guys uncomfortable or liberating? Is bareback sex going to give you guilt? Is the intimacy of one-on-one sex that takes time and includes conversation more satisfying than multiple anonymous encounters? Do poppers/amyl and/or alcohol assist in abandoning your inhibitions? When you give oral are you worried about where it might have just been (and I don't mean just freshly showered).

It's also about bareback sex and the issues especially for transmission of sexual infections. My observation is that while condoms are available, they're infrequently used. This means there's a higher risk than normal of going home with an extra unwanted STI (sexually transmitted infections) or crabs.

So if a sexual male play-space with so many uninhibited naked men as you can handle is what you're looking for, then check out the gay sauna/bathhouse in your city and chances are you'll find a night or afternoon where it's naked action. These events tend to attract a much higher number of men than on normal nights, and that can only mean a wider variety of like-minded guys are waiting for you to show-up and get your gear off too. Have fun!


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