What is it that makes
watching live sex such a turn-on for so many men? Here are some observations
you might relate to:
-
- Perhaps
it's something that I wouldn't usually do myself but if someone else is doing
it then that has somehow given me the approval to watch them
- My
upbringing taught me that sex should be a private event but here's an opportunity
for me to break my self-imposed forbidden boundaries
- It's
a chance to learn about how others have sex. Perhaps an opportunity to observe
how a bottom can take a thick/big cock or see different positions for sex in
action
- We
can silently compare our previous sexual performance with what we're watching
- It's
such a rare opportunity in most men's sex lives, especially for men in deep
suburban or rural areas that it becomes more than exciting because of that
rarity
- We
project ourselves, our fantasies, our lustful desires onto the performing
couple (or group)
- The
sounds excite us. Sex is not just a visual activity
- Silently
we react to the invisible pheromones being given off by the participants. These
sexually excite us
- If
we're in a group sex situation the sexual excitement is multiplied as we decide
which man we'll play with next. While we're having sex, seeing others next to
us or within sight also adds to the intensity of what we're feeling. Perhaps we
think that we can do it better than they are doing, or perhaps we want to
sexually enjoy ourselves in positions just like others are currently doing, or
just simply we want to try it with the horny man who smiled at us and sent
their come-and-get-me message. With any scenario, we grow more confident as the
surrounding activity and our involvement continues
- We've
come out of a monogamous relationship where the sex eventually became boring. Now
we have the urge to see what we've been missing out on, a chance to compare our
limited sexual knowledge with what the wider gay/bi community is capable of
teaching us.
- Mentally
and physically we're preparing ourselves for the moment when we hope to be
invited to join them. My mind tells my cock to get ready – we're going into the
fray very soon
- Watching
sexual action via a wall crack, a keyhole or through a window adds to the 'forbidden'
aspect
- Live
sex is often much more exciting than video performances because of the
immediacy of the action and the sexually charged environment we are already in
- - Watching
naked men showering has been for many gay and bi men their introduction to the
excitement of voyeuring. Even though no sex is happening, breaking the
forbidden barrier of watching nudity is so intense that it becomes a sexually
stimulating event that is secretly sought after throughout their lifetime
- - We've
been invited to watch others having live sex via a phone app. As we will also
be on view to them we can masturbate, hence giving the participants an
additional sexual thrill as they watch me in return. Having someone watch you
whilst not physically being able to join in, can certainly urge on the
enthusiasm and excitement of the active couple. Watching live sex happen on the
other side of the world can also bring in cultural and ethnic differences to
add to the excitement we can feel
For me, watching sex happen
in real-time, preferably within physical reach of where it's happening, is an
act of voyeurism that is hard to surpass. It crosses many of those forbidden
boundaries I was raised to respect. But it also lets me know that I am accepted
as an on-looking companion to those actively participating together in their
sex. My naked body is at least initially accepted even though it's not always
going to be invited to partake. That in itself is confidence-boosting. We all
need to feel accepted. Being allowed to watch sex happen is a great privilege
and a fabulous turn-on to additional sexual activity either with them or with
another man. At the very least it provides an erotic memory that can be pulled
up in the mind for use in the future.
Thank you to all the men who
have been extrovert enough to have let me watch you – I've loved watching every
stroke!
Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. No endorsement of unlawful actions is intended or implied
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