How long do your indoor sex sessions with other male partners take? Based on my own experiences and observations I'd like to propose the following as a loose guide as to what to expect. It's very subjective and is non-scientific in every way, but tell me that I'm not touching on the realities of today's sexual dating scene. Sometimes there is pure lust which implies a quick event, right through to old friends meeting up socially as well as sexually.
Spur-of-the-Moment Pickups
New-to-the-Scene Married Guys
He's just about ready to shoot his load the minute he walks through the door. He's been waiting this moment for quite a while, especially if there's been no sex at home with the wife. His balls are loaded and he just can't wait for the nakedness and the touch to send him into whatever erotic delirium he has imagined this scenario to lead to. He wants to fuck and have everything done to him, but as soon as hands or lips touch him, he's lost to any lengthy encounter. It suddenly becomes so overwhelming a sensation that he just wants it over as quickly as possible so that he can feel the dizzying heights of pleasure his mind demands. “Fuck! I'm cumming. I can't hold back“ is a cry that will not only assure you of a hot load of jizz, it will also assure you as host, of a return visit to relieve his guilt about cumming so quickly and about wanting to take the next encounter more slowly and much further. He'll wipe up, get dressed and leave within the blink of an eye. DURATION: 5 – 10 minutes maximum.
Experienced Married Guys
They know what they want from a MM encounter. They know that quick anonymous sex can be fantastic, though generally isn't. Rather, they are looking for an encounter that will make memories for their masturbation activities and sometimes, create thoughts to silently invoke while having heterosexual sex at home. They are looking for masculine approval, a male friend who is like-minded, that special physical touch that only another man can offer, the crossing of that forbidden threshold of kissing, and fellatio and fucking. Of including maybe just a bit of general, non-specific conversation. He wants to leave the meetup with not just a physical relief of having cum, but have a feeling of worth, of being part of a wider masculine community and one that gives him the emotional sustenance to continue with the family life he goes back to live with. But well he knows that sex, touch, and companionship will always draw him back to nice enjoyable male company. DURATION: 60 minutes minimum.
Threesomes/Groups
Old Friends/Fuck Buddies
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Bathhouses/Saunas
Luck and timing are two things you can't predict when visiting these steamy places. All you need to know is what time you have to be gone by. What happens between arrival and departure is the lure that keeps drawing guys back to such establishments. Individual encounters with other men can be few or many, deeply satisfying or mind-blowingly shallow, lengthy or brief. The men are all seeking physical relief and if anything else – like a conversation – happens, then that's a bonus. Each encounter is “fresh meat“. He may be to your liking, maybe not. But he's a man, seeking sex, and he's there right in front of you naked and available. Inevitable eye-contact will ensure sex happens. And of course, there's hopefully another guy waiting just around the corridor corner, so if this guy isn't up to scratch, then wait a minute or two and start cruising again. DURATION: 7 minutes for a quick cubicle pairing, 30 minutes for a mutually agreeable fuck session, 40 minutes if there's after-glow conversation. With 45 minutes maximum for any encounter, as within every guy's head his brain is either saying that he's still curious about who else might be available, or “how do I get out of this situation so that I can go home“. All encounters are transitory.
There you have it. "Peter's Rough Guide to Sexual Encounters". If you can see yourself in one of these scenarios, then take a moment to share that with us by adding a comment.
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