Out there you can find cougars, bears, cubs, pigs, wolves, otters, pups – and now you can add OWLS to this menagerie of sexual labels! Yep, they’re “Oldies Who Love Sex”!
It’s a great new way of describing the fun that is being had both heterosexually, bisexually and homosexually right across the board. It’s a wonderful secret world that few in younger generations would even pass a thought about, let alone talk about it. You can almost audibly hear the gross-out expletives that they would use and the thoughts along the lines of “lock them all up and throw away the key”.
That’s all fine by me, as being a sexually adventurous older 60+ man it lets me enjoy the pleasures of my own age group and older, without being caught up in the often ego-driven and image-perfect world of the young adults. I have a body that is covered in scars from my life experiences including surgical, accidents and natural ageing. The hair is grey, the wrinkles are increasing, I wear glasses most of the time, the stomach increases or decrease depending on whatever diet I’m on. And I’m very happy with who and what I am – and comfortable in my own skin.
I’m also always horny – more so than at any other period of my life! And I’m in a position to attract sexual partners to me. I can only laugh at the advice we were given as young men that by age 50 we would be washed up, lonely and nobody in their right mind would even give us a second look just to talk to, let alone consider having sex with. Of course, what they didn’t know at the time is something called the Internet.
And what a revolution and boon that invention has been for anyone seeking sexual partners, whatever their age.
I’m an average man in just about all ways, but I have to say that there is absolutely no shortage of men out there who want to have sex with other men of any adult age – or women or in groups or as 3somes or in different ethnic or cultural groups, or tied up or swinging from chandeliers. Whatever you are attracted to that will bring about sexual satisfaction somewhere online you can find it - and as often as you want to indulge in it.
My own experience tells me that I could have sex with different people every day or night of the week either individually or as part of groups. Married men who “can’t host” but are available to meet “during the day, Monday to Friday” are everywhere. If you as a host, can provide a safe place for sex, then sex is yours for the picking.
Sexless marriages are fertile grounds for men who want some dalliance on the side with other men. They’ve seen the online videos, and now they want to hold and experience the “real thing”. Touching, cuddling, oral, anal, showering together, conversation – these are all important aspects for oldies wanting and having sex. I’ve said it many times before, but the loneliest place on earth for a man of any age is the marital bed when there is no sex. Men NEED to be hugged, made to feel good, be given expression to their sexual needs, know that other men appreciate them for who they are and what they can bring to the encounter.
Now with Viagra and other erectile enhancing pills the natural ageing process of “limp dick syndrome” can be reversed allowing sexual intercourse to continue to a ripe old age. Unfortunately, there’s still the evil spectre of prostate cancer and the debilitating and life-changing effects of the operations to be considered. So many men I’ve met have had their sexual lives devastated by such operations, but most do not give up on finding enjoyment and internal orgasms. Their sexual roles change in new directions – previous tops now become bottoms, touch and kissing and sensual pleasuring become priorities and they tell their new anonymous hook-up that they won’t shoot a load but they WILL have an internal cumming.
I’ve played with men who need to inject their penis before play, I’ve had them pump up their penis, many take a tablet – but what is really important here is that they still want to be desired, to function sexually in their own particular way, they can still feel the delights of a hard dick up their backside, enjoy the sharing of passionate kisses, use their mouth to give blow jobs and to spread soap across wet bodies under a shower. Their penis mightn’t do everything it previously did, but believe me, there’s much more to sexual pleasuring that being totally cock-obsessed.
And did I hear you say, what about all the younger guys who like to have sex with older Daddies? Visit any Internet dating site for men with men, and you’ll have lustful and eager younger men seeking out the older experienced men over 50 years of age for hot sex. There’s always an outcry in the heterosexual world when older women take younger lovers, but in the male gay world, that outcry rarely happens. It’s all about “good on ‘em”. It happens far more often than you imagine – and there’s a huge amount of genuine caring and affection shared between the two diverse age groups.
There’s also the issue of retired men having time on their hands to pursue sex. Afternoons at the gay sauna/bathhouse, organised nude nights at bars and bathhouses, underwear parties, nude weekends in the country, friends having mini-orgies at someone’s home, travellers looking for like-minded fun in their hotel rooms, jerk-off clubs – these are just a few examples of OWLS discovering how wide-spread and available sex is, especially in cities and larger rural towns.
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And if you’re under say 45 years of age and reading this, you can judge your own sexual frequency by what you now know about OWLS – we’re a very sexually active lot of guys/dads/grandpas who consider sex with others at least four times a week as normal, if not more. At a bathhouse, four encounters or more would be an average score for say, a three-hour visit. And if you’re like a 93-year-old male friend of mine then you would still be sexually active several times a week.
Whoever said we’d be lonely, desperate old sexual has-beens after middle-age knew nothing - believe me!
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