Invitation To An Orgy

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If we’ve been playing with a variety of men, sooner or later we can expect to get that invitation to join in with an orgy. To get such an invitation we need to have demonstrated that we are fun to be with, we’re sexually liberated, happy to share our body with a range of men, we’ll be involved rather than just be a voyeur and that we might invite another man of like-mind who would also like to join in.

All orgies are different, but generally there is a social element to begin with where the participants congregate whilst everyone is arriving. The host, whose home it is being held in, will want to set the scene for the event and will dress in just his briefs or nothing at all. Some drinks and a time for a chat allows everyone to get to know their fellow participants – and to eyeball the guys that they have taken a liking to. At a set time it’s clothes off and into the action. For small groups, bedrooms are good locations, as it means lots of action in a very compact area – on the bed, over the bed, together in the bed, men on their knees, group groping, multiple partners and lots of touch. The closeness of bodies and happening sex can be a real turn on.

But some of the best orgies I’ve attended were those held in the lounge or living space, as that gives more possibilities for larger group action. There is always pairing up, 3somes, side-by-side group action on the floor – and if a portable sling has been acquired for the event, this is sure to provide a steady stream of men wanting to be gang-banged as well as those who are more than willing to give them their fantasy.

You’ll always find poppers (amyl nitrate) and alcohol in use. Sometimes drugs of a harder nature. There will be some, if not a lot, of bareback unsafe sex. Condoms may be provided but their use is often ignored. Lubrication is generally in plentiful supply. Sex with multiple partners is expected of you, and if you are versatile, reciprocated back to multiple partners. When you give oral you won’t always know where that cock has been before you suck it so expect that some will have been inside anal passages and not washed. You’ll see cocks that will be erect for the whole party (ably assisted by a tablet before the proceedings commenced).  If it’s a mixed age event expect some attitude from those younger members who only want to play with the handsome, muscled gym-fit guys of their own age. Group sex under the shower can be a fun finale to the event. Photographs and video should not be taken unless there is prior agreement between the participants.

There are also commercially organized sex events which are like orgies, where up to a hundred or more guys attend and have sex in the same play space. With these there is more of a chance to find a man who you will feel attracted to for a one to one session, but remember this is an orgy, so spreading your talents around the room is what is expected. You can have your one to one with him another time – or later that evening.

An all-male orgy is a very sexually liberating and fun time. They’re a great opportunity to witness and participate in a wider erotic sexual context than you might normally with a one to one or even a 3some. They are not for everyone and you’ll soon discover whether the freedoms and boundaries are to your liking or not.

When you do get that first invitation you won’t think of anything else for days – your mind will go into overdrive. Expect erections, mixed thoughts about what might or might not happen, that you will live out fantasy ideas in your mind and trawl the Internet websites for orgy videos.  There is a great sense of anticipation, of being accepted because of your sexuality.

It’s a much better invitation than to almost anything else I can think of!

Disclaimer: All advice and information given here on this blog is general in nature and non-specific to any individual, couple or group. You are encouraged to seek your own independent professional medical, psychological and counselling advice. 

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