Adult Sex Cinemas: The Main Action Is Not On The Screen

A heterosexual adult sex cinema can be a great place to watch actual sex happening and to also participate.  The porn on the screen is usually straight sex but the audience can be heterosexual couples, married men on the prowl or bisexual guys looking for whatever is offering. If there is a dozen audience members at any one time, that would be about average. It’s really an indoor beat, or ‘dogging’ area.

It’s a safe location where the audience members appreciate both the voyeuristic as well as the exhibitionist aspects. There’s no privacy. It’s where a man can sit alone and watch the on-screen sex whilst masturbating. Where he can masturbate the man sitting next to him. Where mutual oral sex can be given whilst standing or sitting. Where anal sex can take place anywhere in the cinema or its adjacent rooms or corridors. Where any form of sexual play can attract an audience of patrons either as voyeurs or if you like them, as invited participants. When action is happening all the attention is on the live sex and the additional sex that often begins on the fringes. Don’t expect condoms or lubricant or a means of cleaning up to be found. Bring your own.

It's not unknown for straight male/female partners to go to these cinemas and, after a short viewing period, begin to give a show for the other patrons. It’s sexual heaven for the other attendees if they are invited to join in the straight sex. As a complete stranger has sex with the female, the original male partner is often joined by other men in oral or anal gay sex. Each partner likes to keep an eye on what sex the other is having, and those men not included in the main sexual activity will masturbate at the action taking place in front of them. The view of hot bodies, the sounds of sex, the adreneline from being in such an environment, the nudity, the massive intake of sexual stimulation all combine to make sex in an adult cinema very exciting. Group sex won't happen every time you visit, but on those occasions when it does, there is no better place to be. There will be more man-to-man action if there are no females present in the audience.

A gay adult cinema operates much the same but with only men in attendance.  There’ll be a higher incidence of one-to-one sex but really, anything goes. With trousers around the ankles, oral and anal sex are easy to initiate, and with other horny men there wanting a piece of the action, then generally some form of sex eventuates. But not always - there’s always the chance that you will be the only one there as the real action happened just before you arrived. Timing is everything, so if you are patient, generally in due course, you’ll find an accommodating man. If not, then there’s always the movie and your ever-reliable hand.

When A Sexual Date Doesn’t Go Quite To Plan

I suspect we are all the same when it comes to meeting up with another man at his place. Even though we’ve sent and received the emails, talked on the phone, double checked the meeting time, worked out the route to his place and exchanged photos, there is still that apprehension about what will he really be like, will I be safe there.

Generally I can host but every now and again I go to a new guy’s house for sex. No matter how many times I’ve done this, there is still apprehension – or is that intense excitement tinged with a bit of guilty pleasure and anticipation? Even though I’d checked and doubled checked the details, when I arrived, the house was in darkness. What now?  I’d set aside a good couple of hours, I knew from speaking with him that he was going to give me good sexual enjoyment the way I like it, I’d travelled some 30 minutes to get there. So finding a street light I used my cell phone and he answered. He had been watching television and had missed the time to turn on the welcoming light. Simple as that.

But being part way through a television program he wanted to see the remainder. So my visions of a hot date with clothes being torn off at the front door melted into a fully-clothed event of sitting up in his bed watching another 20 minutes of television. Sure I enjoyed what I saw, but I was very eager to get started on the sex the moment it finished. And of course, we had a great night of passion and hot sex which totally vindicated my expectations

Reflecting on the event, I’m pleased to see that the extra diversions of the cell call and the television viewing (both of which at the time annoyed me), were in reality terrific sexual stimulants. They delayed the beginning of the action so that I was even more eager than I expected, and by diverting my attention away from my hot fantasy scenario, the evening went in a totally new and highly exciting direction. I couldn’t – and didn’t need to control the flow of the meeting, for by going with the flow and not getting angry, the added delay gave me an even higher sexual anticipation that went way beyond my original expectations. What was going to be a horny evening in fact gave me a night to remember.

I was pleased to realise that an unexpected delay in getting off can have the most intense and pleasurable results. 

Greedy! Sex With A Man and Sex With His Wife – In The Same Day

You know the type of guy – ordinary looking, very highly sexed, early forties. He needs sex or masturbation at least daily. He has sex with guys as often as he can. He beds his wife as frequently as she will let him. He fantasizes a lot about what he loves to do with his sex partners, both male and female. And what really pisses you off is that compared to you he really does get heaps more sex than you think he should – or deserves. He gets the best of both worlds – and still wants more.  How sexually greedy can you get!

He will also tell you that his man-to-man sex life is often a percusor to having fantastic sex with his wife. During the afternoon he calls in to see his male sex buddy and he gets pleasured, enjoys the hot safe sex (often with anal toys as well as the real thing), blows his load. Then home to his wife for a leisurly dinner before he encourages her to have ‘an early night’. By mid evening he’s really turned on to the thought of having more hot sex with her (who, by the way, he genuinely adores). With his arse still twinging with memories of the afternoon sex, his cock as hard as a rock and a head swirling with a mixture of cock and pussy images, he is every bit the aggressive sexual hunter. He takes the lead in the sex, he gives his wife his full sexual attention, he makes sure she is fully pleasured without having to give much back to him, and then he shoots his load with great intensity as the physical lust joins with the fantasy images to push him over the top.

As he will tell you, sex with his wife after sex with a man earlier in the day, has an intensity and aggressiveness that is a fantastic combination. Maybe he even has a fantasy about having both his male lover and his wife in the bed together, the three of them all playing together – an even greater turn-on for him.

By being able to have sex with both men and women, especially in the one day, he’s that all too rare a male who is happily capable of straddling two sexual worlds. Play safe and it’s a great place to be.

4 Simple And Effective After-Sex Hygiene Hints

You’ve just had a great sex session. You’ve passionately kissed, you’ve anally fingered each other, given each other great oral, you’ve screwed, both shot your loads, you’ve basked in the afterglow of each other, and now it’s time to hit the bathroom. Take a moment and help keep yourself healthy by:

-       urinating as soon as possible. This assists in flushing out any virus that may have entered the urethra during sex play

-       gargling with an antibacterial mouthwash. This is especially important if you have been kissing or rimming your man

-       washing your hands, (including under the fingernails) with an antibacterial hand wash. Again, very important if you have been anal fingering

-       showering to wash away all the lubricant thus removing the likelihood of any allergic reaction

I use this very simple and basic hygiene regime every time I play. I’m sure that it has helped keep me free of those everyday annoying illnesses and rashes. They won’t stop you getting crabs or sexually transmissible infections, but they will help keep you healthy and bug-free to play another day.