When A Sexual Date Doesn’t Go Quite To Plan

I suspect we are all the same when it comes to meeting up with another man at his place. Even though we’ve sent and received the emails, talked on the phone, double checked the meeting time, worked out the route to his place and exchanged photos, there is still that apprehension about what will he really be like, will I be safe there.

Generally I can host but every now and again I go to a new guy’s house for sex. No matter how many times I’ve done this, there is still apprehension – or is that intense excitement tinged with a bit of guilty pleasure and anticipation? Even though I’d checked and doubled checked the details, when I arrived, the house was in darkness. What now?  I’d set aside a good couple of hours, I knew from speaking with him that he was going to give me good sexual enjoyment the way I like it, I’d travelled some 30 minutes to get there. So finding a street light I used my cell phone and he answered. He had been watching television and had missed the time to turn on the welcoming light. Simple as that.

But being part way through a television program he wanted to see the remainder. So my visions of a hot date with clothes being torn off at the front door melted into a fully-clothed event of sitting up in his bed watching another 20 minutes of television. Sure I enjoyed what I saw, but I was very eager to get started on the sex the moment it finished. And of course, we had a great night of passion and hot sex which totally vindicated my expectations

Reflecting on the event, I’m pleased to see that the extra diversions of the cell call and the television viewing (both of which at the time annoyed me), were in reality terrific sexual stimulants. They delayed the beginning of the action so that I was even more eager than I expected, and by diverting my attention away from my hot fantasy scenario, the evening went in a totally new and highly exciting direction. I couldn’t – and didn’t need to control the flow of the meeting, for by going with the flow and not getting angry, the added delay gave me an even higher sexual anticipation that went way beyond my original expectations. What was going to be a horny evening in fact gave me a night to remember.

I was pleased to realise that an unexpected delay in getting off can have the most intense and pleasurable results.