You have a fuck buddy. You can drop in to see him with
little or no notice and the sex is always fun and uninhibited. He is enjoyable
company, doesn’t make any demands on you and you think you know him fairly
well.
Then one day he asks about how you would feel if he wore
female underwear and stockings during a future sex meeting. You keep looking at
him, take a deep breath or two and stammer out the words about having no
problems with that.
On the way home you’re saying to yourself that you thought
you knew your buddy but perhaps not. You remind yourself that really you are
still straight and that a woman’s body and her underwear still excites you. The
fact that it’s now worn by a man shouldn’t make it any different, should it?
It’s a new image that you now can’t get out of your head. In
fact it gives you a hard-on just thinking about it. You imagine the texture of
the satin and lace panties, seeing the black stockings on his legs all the way
to the groin, and then there is his beautiful arse just waiting to be filled by
your pulsing erection. There’s a fusion of masculine and feminine, of straight
and gay, of lust like you haven’t felt for a long time - and a sexual moment
you’ve not encountered before.
There’s no mention of other aspects of femininity like
lipstick or powder so he’s not trying to be anything other than a man with a
couple of pieces of feminine apparel on him. Except for the brief clothing he’s
still the macho guy you like to fuck.
But there’s that odd feeling that something is not right.
The scene is no longer black and white, well defined, man-to-man, totally
masculine. There’s something else in the way. Could that be your own perception
of what you define as ‘proper’ man-to-man sex?
Cross dressing to some degree is widespread across many
cultures. What is not so well accepted is the number of straight/bi men who
like to wear female underwear. You only have to look on the dating sites to see
photos of men – mostly very masculine men – who happily show a profile photo of
themselves in silky female underwear. It’s not uncommon for wives, especially
mature age ones, to know of the situation and to purchase the underwear for
their husbands.
What is generally not acceptable is to see such men getting
changed in public change-rooms or indeed, at the local gay sauna/bathhouse.
Tolerance by the majority of men is still low towards such behaviour. Somehow
it’s an affront to their masculinity to see another man not totally in the accepted
image of masculinity.
Is it seen as an obtrusive reminder from the straight world
about you having crossed the line into male/male sex? Is it something you’d like to do yourself but accepting your
feminine side is too difficult to bring in to reality? Is it the guilt of touching the
alluring satin feel of the underwear that says this should really be my wife,
and not some man dressed up in female panties?
If you can accept his wearing of female underwear then
chances are you’ll have really hot sex as your head will combine the best of
both male and female erotic excitement. If you can’t accept the feminine intrusion into your male love-making chances are your cock will wilt and you’ll
quickly move on to finding another man, quite possibly far more masculine than
you have had to date.
Albeit you’ll be a wiser man about your own sexuality and
what constitutes the best sexual partner for you. Perhaps you’ll also be more
deeply appreciative and tolerant of the diversity that exists in human sexuality.
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