Straight Acting – A Jekyll And Hyde Approach To Man Sex

I read the guy’s profile on the hook-up site and it says “straight acting”.

My immediate natural reaction is that he is conservative in attitude, sexually closeted, married, only available during the day, doesn’t want to be seen by society as a deviant or different in any way – but in spite of this it has been my fortunate experience that probably he is also rampant in bed and whilst even a little bit horny, is totally insatiable. He either enjoys the full-on let-me-give-it-to-you-now alpha male approach or alternatively becomes the complete legs-wide-apart-fuck-me-deep-and-hard slut.

It’s as if he has to make this “I’m straight” statement to the world so that he can hide his real sexuality behind it.

Is it a way of reassuring himself that by acting ‘normally’ as a full-blooded heterosexual man he can slip through the socially acceptable net and sexually play with men without anyone noticing?

Or is it a reaction to the stereotypical gay man image that has unfortunately been portrayed for too many years by the mass media – that is, a limp-wristed, hand flapping, flamboyant, attention seeking, cross-dressing man?   Wrong that those images are, it’s an image he can’t – and doesn’t want to - relate to.

Is it about protecting himself by deluding himself?  Irrespective of what he does sexually he still sees himself as a heterosexual married husband and family man. By shielding himself with a self-image of respectability he can ignore his man-to-man sexual side as nothing more than a hobby, a fun game to indulge in whenever the time is right.

I suggest that it can also be a statement letting others know that he is not comfortable with the tag of gay or bisexual. It’s not in his head that their perceived lifestyle is what he is all about. Sure, he knows and enjoys sucking cock, taking it up the backside, shaving his balls and kissing anonymous men, but there is a resistance to accepting that what he does with his cock equates to anything other than a bit of fun on the side to his every day married life.

In his eyes straight equates to acceptable society expectations. If a man feels the need to identify with that so be it. For gay men looking for an exciting hook-up don’t underestimate the guy who identifies as ‘straight’ – more likely than not it’s a Jekyll and Hyde scenario. Irrespective of that defining statement in his profile he’ll take full advantage of his man-to-man sex time by making it the best and most enthusiastic couple of hours of his week. I love such a man in my bed!