Hot Sex: 5 Good Reasons To Put “Hot” In Your Dating Profile

In the dating profile he states that he wants “hot sex”.

As the reader and potential sex partner, that word “hot” indicates several things to me:

–      that the guy will probably be pro-active in his endeavours to make the session a fun one. He has private expectations that we’ll both make it full of energy and may be even “anything goes” until we both drop from exhaustion

–      that he probably has in mind certain activities that will bring him satisfaction. If he’s versatile that can range from oral to anal and everything either side and in-between. No stopping until he has been sexually satisfied

–      that he won’t just lie there and not contribute to the event. That means I’ll get a lot of action lavished back on me so that we are equally contributing to the other one’s pleasure. This won’t be a one-sided event

–      that there is an expectation that the sex will be somewhat energetic and possibly work up a sweat. In my mind hot equals fire equals intensity – so I’m sure not going to miss this opportunity for an all-too-rare action session

–      that he’s worth taking a chance with as I’m also likely to get some good satisfying sex from the meet. How often have you had the “look-after-me-without-thinking-about-yourself“ type guy.  If you’re like me , that has been too often. Sex is about sharing and attempting to give the other guy a great time whilst he does the same to you. At least if he’s even thinking about “hot sex” then there is potential for a great time.

“Hot” is also a great word that defines in the mind of most guys that the potential sex will be better than average, and quite possibly be memorable. It’s a more powerful, persuasive word to describe sex than raunchy, casual, vanilla, loves, discreet, explore, uninhibited or stimulating. All of these have their place in profile descriptions and will attract the right playmate for you if you use them.

But when you’re feeling really horny, have an urge to be down and dirty, and you desire that totally uninhibited try anything sexual experience, then “hot” is the word that will push you over the edge. Inevitably you will choose the “hot” guy ahead of the others.  I know I do!